It’s in the nature of a comedian to think of humor in uncomfortable situations. After all, humor is a basic defense mechanism within human beings, whereby we confront our fears and anxieties with ridicule and laughter. Comedians are tuned to this mechanism, and just as writers are writing always (even if they aren’t putting pen to paper), comedians are always cracking jokes – on the inside at least.
Sometimes the quick little gags that pop into our heads are really funny and appropriate. Others are really funny and very INappropriate. (Picture Brian Griffen banging on the kitchen table yelling “WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!” right now.) They’re things we would never, EVER, say in the real world, and quite often don’t even reflect how we really feel. But because our brains try to soften the blows of shock, horror, loss, or tragedy, they make a funny out of it to make us feel a little better.
This afternoon, in the middle of a discussion about the Civil Rights struggle, one of those Brian-banging-on-the-table jokes entered into my head. I’ve been trying hard not to laugh at it because I know it’s one of the most tasteless things I’ve come up with, and I hope the subject of the joke will understand: it’s just my way of dealing with a great loss that has diminished the rest of the world.
“Rosa Parks died this week…and you just know that somewhere in Alabama, someone stood up and said ‘OKAY, YOU’VE HAD YOUR FUN, NOW GET IN THE BACK OF THE BUS!’”
Just had to get that off my chest.


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